While very young, we learn the storyline of George Washington’s misadventure with the cherry tree along with his bold admittance to his parents, “I cannot tell a lie; I chopped down the cherry tree!” Truthfulness is integrated in our character, and oftentimes telling a little white lie can wrack us with guilt. But could it […]
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Probably one of the most noble and admirable decisions adult children will make is to open up their house to an aging parent. Our parents raised and took care of us when we needed assistance, so it seems like a no-brainer to reciprocate when it becomes unsafe for Mom or Dad to live alone. But
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It may be a bit intimidating to understand exactly what to say and how to behave when spending time with someone you care about with Alzheimer’s. And, sadly, because of a few inherent facets of Alzheimer's, commonly family and friends feel so uncomfortable they avoid visiting the person anymore. Understanding more information about Alzheimer's disease
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“It just hasn't been a good day,” we sometimes bemoan, shrugging our shoulders gloomily. After all, sometimes things happen that are entirely out of our control, and some days all of them seem to happen at exactly the same time – making us wish we’d made the decision to simply stay in bed! Nevertheless, there
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When it comes to financial planning for seniors, it’s a sensitive topic to talk about with aging parents, but one which needs to be resolved sooner rather than later. Many adult children are reluctant to get involved with parents’ financial matters until there’s a desperate need, but initiating the discussion ahead of the need provides
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It is always best to tell the truth, right? Still there are occasions when some truths are better left unsaid, or at the very least worded more positively, particularly if communicating with aging parents. While we could have the very best of intentions in attempting to help older adults navigate life, we can help alleviate
Have You Said These Common Yet Hurtful Things to Your Aging Parents? Read More »
Do you remember how difficult it could be when you were a child to learn the concept of sharing with your brothers and sisters? Even though the incredible importance of thinking about others’ feelings, and also being fair, was impressed upon us at an early age, it may still be a challenge to lessen sibling
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“I don't have dementia. There's nothing wrong with me!” If you’ve ever heard a loved one with dementia frustratingly communicate this or perhaps a matching sentiment, you may have believed the person was merely in denial and reluctant to come to grips with a tough diagnosis. The truth is, however, that oftentimes those with Alzheimer’s
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Let’s be truthful: providing care for a senior is often tiring, overwhelming, and isolating. As care requirements progress, particularly when a long-term condition like Alzheimer’s or Parkinson’s disease is at play, family caregivers could feel that they’re in over their heads, and getting through the standard tasks of the daytime – using the shower, preparing
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Although we would rather turn a blind eye to it, family friction is usually prevalent in some way for most people, and during a period of crisis, is usually aggravated. Once levels of stress are increased, it's normal to seek a target to serve as an outlet for all those emotions; and unfortunately, that target
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