A cancer diagnosis is difficult for the patient to deal with, and no two people react the same way when hearing the news. Your loved one should be allowed to cope with cancer in his or her own way, while your role should be to support the person in whatever way necessary. At Independence-4-Seniors, we've compiled the following list of ways a family member or friend can support a loved one who has cancer.
- Just be there. Lend a compassionate ear whenever the cancer patient needs to talk.
- Avoid minimizing the situation. The “everything will be all right” attitude seems positive, but your loved one likely understands that everything might not turn out all right. False cheeriness is not what he or she needs.
- Prepare to change roles or play new ones. You may have to step in to fulfill some of the duties your loved one used to always do.
- Be an advocate for your loved one. Research, scout out cancer specialists and learn everything there is to know about the cancer and its treatments, bringing questions to the attention of the oncologist at the appointments.
- Help with the mundane, everyday tasks of life or contact Independence-4-Seniors. We can provide respite and in-home care to ensure your loved one can remain comfortable and healthy at home while undergoing treatments.
Home care and home health care services may be a good resource to provide some caregiving relief. Independence-4-Seniors of Hinsdale can work with you and your loved one to develop strategies for coping with whatever emotional or practical challenges that arise. Call us today at (630) 323-4665 to learn more about our home care services and how we can assist your loved one.