Bringing up the topic of “dementia” at your next summer pool party is a surefire way to turn a festive atmosphere into a subdued atmosphere. Whether you've witnessed it firsthand or know only about this disease through what you've read, typically the experience has involved negative connotations. And because there is still not yet a cure, it’s only natural that an Alzheimer’s diagnosis in a loved one leads to numerous concerns.
What isn’t typically discussed – if at all – are the bright experiences of dementia. In fact, studies have shown that as few as 25% of individuals with mild or moderate dementia self-describe their lives as negative. According to Dr. Peter Rabins, author of “The 36-Hour Day” in which the study is presented, and a professor at the University of Maryland, “I’ve seen that you can be a wonderful grandparent and not remember the name of the grandchild you adore. You can be with people you love and enjoy them, even if you’re not following the whole conversation.”
It can help to keep in mind that regardless of the external changes noticed in people who have Alzheimer’s or another dementia, they are still the same person inside with many of the very same character traits and feelings as always. They take pleasure in being in a relationship with other people, find comfort in familiar surroundings, and like meaningful, purposeful activities. It’s a matter of taking the time to better understand the particular person and devoting quality time to engaging in pastimes that he or she really loves.
There are lots of ways you might help foster wellbeing and a favorable outlook for a family member with Alzheimer’s or dementia, even while the disease advances. At the top of our list includes socializing. Many relatives are anxious and uneasy around their family member with dementia, and for that reason, very often will cut back on visits or even just abandon them altogether. It’s essential to search out ways to help your loved one continue to be socially connected. Continue to visit, and hire the services of a professional in-home caregiver, such as Independence-4-Seniors Home Care provides, to fill in the gaps.
Contact us for more Chicago dementia care suggestions or to explore further ways to enrich quality of life for a family member. Our professionally trained Chicago Alzheimer’s and dementia care team is on hand in order to provide reliable respite services, allowing family members essential time away to rest and recharge, knowing their loved one is in the very best of care.