Ableism Explained

Ableism can come in many forms. Learn more here.

Have you heard the word “ableism” but really could use some help to have ableism explained to you more clearly? First, think about your initial thought when you see a person in a wheelchair. Do you see that person as less-than, someone in need of being fixed? Do you presume they require special treatment, as though a physical disability impacts intellect as well? How does your thinking shift to see someone standing upright, without the need for a wheelchair; would you think they were better-abled than the wheelchair-bound older adult?

These are difficult questions that require honest answers if we’re to understand and respond accordingly to hidden disabilities and ableism.

What Exactly Is Ableism?

Ableism is identified as “the discrimination of and social prejudice against people with disabilities based on the belief that typical abilities are superior.” It contributes to harmful stereotypes and misconceptions.

The Two Sides of the Disability Coin

Individuals with visible disabilities encounter ableism in lots of ways: exclusion from places that are inaccessible, being spoken down to or asked invasive questions, needing to wait to use an accessible restroom stall while in use by an individual who could be using a standard stall, etc. Conversely, there are lots of disabilities that aren’t as easily visible (such as Alzheimer’s disease, hearing impairment, or a heart condition), accounting for up to 80% of the disabled population. These people may have their concerns minimized and need to fight harder to receive any accommodations needed.

Whether or not a disability is apparent or hidden, there are steps we can all take to promote equality and inclusion:

Treat everyone in the manner in which you would want to be treated. Look them in the eye. Say hello. Engage them in a conversation if they welcome the social interaction.
Never speak over or around the person, addressing a caregiver first. Speak directly to the person, and if help with conversing is needed, the caregiver can then step in. Remember that the person is an adult, and should always be spoken to as such.
Avoid trying to think for the individual or impose your help. Offer assistance in an open-ended manner if it seems warranted, giving them the choice to let you know if they would like your help or not.

At Independence-4-Seniors Home Care, we’re focused on treating each person we serve with respect and dignity. We can help someone you love with a comprehensive selection of individualized in-home care services which can include:

Transportation and accompaniment
Discreet personal care support, for safe baths/showers, restroom use, getting dressed, etc.
Running errands such as picking up prescriptions and grocery shopping
Specialized care for chronic health needs, such as Parkinson’s and Alzheimer’s disease
Assistance with walking and transfers
Companionship to brighten each day through conversations, games, activities, arts and crafts, exercise, and more
Planning and preparing healthy and balanced meals and providing assistance with feeding when needed
And so much more